It would be wrong if she didn't want it, and while Coby always looked for consent – although on occasions he didn't mind not being able to give it – with Vanessa he'd been very deliberate in waiting for her to say yes to his invitations. Today wasn't any different in that regard. But it didn't really get to her question.

"It's not a sin. It wouldn't be for what I once was, unless the intent was wrong, and it isn't for us now. As long as it's what you want."